To the guys on here.

[Swivel]

Well i've had an up and down 5 weeks.

Friday 13th feb i was asked by the wife to move out, no answer as to why or if i had done anything wrong.
Was gutted - lost - just F*&^ed up with where I was going.

Sandy didn't stop me seeing the kids and also not went away from my money.
Basically normal life but didn't want me there. So just wanted time to think I guess.

Friday 20th March. Sandy had a major Stroke and is now in hospital, Back home as to look after the kids (no one is getting between my kids and me).

Hoping that it's all linked and when she is better this will all work out. But have the kids back (they are over the moon).

So if there is a problem and matt or myself don't pick up on it, Just wait or e-mail.

Rant over.

Tomo

[kiwidave]

I'm sorry to hear what's happened Tomo. I wish you the best and hope things sort themselves out for you! It's always tough when there are kids involved. Try and keep positive, it may seem at times it is the end of the world but there are always options.
I hope Sandy has a full recovery and you two get back together.

Cheers Dave.

[Swivel]

Thanks for that.

The kids are happy, happier than what they have been in a month.

They know that Sandy is sick and in hospital, but they aren't that worried, More happy I'm home.
I hope they stay that way and not lose it later, But at the moment they are happy as.
Tom

[whoateallthepies]

wow sorry to hear that mate, hope things sort them selves out and all is good in the end

[ham1200]

Hey mate sorry to hear things still no good in your camp , hope everything turns out good in the end

[pukekohe]

sorry to hear about all the bad news you have had over the last few weeks, time is the healer, so hope all gets sorted over time

[Swivel]

Sandy is now in the rehab ward. She can walk but has no feelings on the right side of her body. Talking is more of a game of charades, She is doing very good at this point, But also it's early days.

Thanks all

[Swivel]

Update on Sandy.

Sandy has full movement on the right side now, just a little slow with the arm. Walking and eating normal food.
Sandy's Speech is still a work in progress, but a lot easier to work out.

In Hospital for atleast another 4 weeks.

Kids are great, hasn't affected them at all, and lastly, It sucks to be a Mum and Dad, always something to do and little time to kick back. LOL

[Swivel]

Update.

Sand is at home now (a few weeks).
Still no feelings on the right side (you could draw a line down the middle of her and right side no feelings).

Full movement and she helps around the house (just a 41 year child at the moment).

Main problem is communication as speech is only 2-3 words at a time (or is that a problem ?? lol).

Kids are happy she is home most of the time (except when they get a growling from her).

And I'm use to being the house B!@#H now.

Tomo

[whoateallthepies]

glad to hear things are slowly on the mend mate, things might hav been on the rocks before she got sick but that's in the past, your a good man for sticking by her as some might hav run, I know a big part of it would hav been for the kids but im sure there also was the part where you did it because of your love for her, woman are mad as fuck and we will never understand them but in SOME (I use that word loosely) cases we need them as much as they need us aye